There are some nights you wish you could bottle up forever — the kind that leave you smiling days later, replaying little moments in your mind, wanting to live them all over again. Reagan’s bar mitzvah was exactly that kind of night. Blending modern elegance with a sleek black-and-white theme and his own custom-designed logo, the celebration reflected not just a milestone, but who Reagan is: creative, thoughtful, confident, and uniquely himself.
A Ceremony Rooted in Meaning
Before the celebration even began, the day was grounded in deep spiritual significance. Reagan’s Torah portion was Noah, a story that teaches the importance of staying righteous, kind, and honest — even when the world makes it difficult. It was the perfect portion for him: a reminder that doing the right thing is often the bravest thing. So many of Reagan’s qualities make him indeed a righteous young man.
The ceremony took place at Temple Beth Torah in Wellington, the synagogue where Reagan grew up and even attended preschool. It felt like a full-circle moment for our family — returning to the place that helped shape his Jewish identity. The service was beautifully led by Rabbi Andy Rosenkranz and Cantor Rachel Slusky, who guided Reagan with warmth, humor, and heart. Their presence made the ceremony feel intimate, personal, and deeply meaningful.
One of the most special parts of the morning was when Reagan was entrusted with a centuries-old Torah, a rare and historic scroll he earned the privilege of taking home for the weekend. This honor came after he created a touching and thoughtful drawing and essay inspired by The Boy in the Striped Pajamas. In it, he expressed how children do not naturally see differences in one another — a message he connected to his own experiences visiting Jewish ghettos in Italy and Spain and learning about the expulsion of Jews. His reflections showed maturity, empathy, and a profound understanding of the responsibility that comes with becoming a bar mitzvah.
A Celebration Filled With Love & Intention
What made the evening truly unforgettable was the people who filled the room. Every guest was intentionally chosen — friends from Sunday school, baseball, and school; cousins; aunts and uncles; grandparents; and our closest family. Everyone there genuinely knows who Reagan is at heart. It was the kind of gathering that reminds you why we celebrate milestones like this: to honor tradition, community, and the people who help raise our children.
The Vendors Who Brought the Vision to Life
The venue, Wellington National Golf Club, was the perfect setting — sophisticated, warm, and effortlessly elegant. Scott Joshua Photography captured every emotional moment, including a special pre-shoot to get our family comfortable, while Lennox Visuals created a cinematic video that lets us relive the magic anytime we want.
Tink Blossom Shop brought Reagan’s vision to life with incredible creativity, designing custom coasters, LED light-up centerpieces, a modern seating chart, and customized black-and-white hoodies that guests adored. Their attention to detail made the room feel cohesive and elevated. Our marquee from Sunshine Glow Co. lit up the entrance beautifully, and Pretty House Designs added chic balloon installations that framed the space perfectly.
The interactive photo booth quickly became a fan favorite, giving guests a fun way to capture memories all night long. And to keep the party buzzing, DJ Rich from Babalu brought nonstop energy and kept the dance floor full from start to finish.
One of the most moving moments of the night was the candle-lighting ceremony, made truly magical by Slava Holidays, whose presentation, music, and lighting added warmth and emotion to each tribute.
The food was another highlight. We served passed hors d’oeuvres — pigs in a blanket, egg rolls, and wings — followed by a build-your-own pasta station with all the fixings, plus a slider station with fried chicken sliders, hamburgers, onion rings, and French fries. Dessert was a crowd-pleaser: a delicious Whole Foods cake and a festive ice cream bar that kept both kids and adults coming back for seconds.
A Night We Will Never Forget
Watching Reagan step into this next chapter — standing proudly on the bimah, leading prayers, sharing his reflections, and truly becoming a young man before our eyes — was one of the greatest gifts of our lives. His bar mitzvah was meaningful, heartfelt, modern, and unforgettable. It was everything we hoped it would be: a night rooted in tradition, elevated with creativity, and wrapped in pure joy.
Vendors:
Venue: @wellingtonnationalgolf
Photography: @scottjoshua_photography
Video: @lennox_visuals
Decor, Coasters, Centerpieces, Hoodies & Seating Chart: @tinkblossomshop
Marquee: @sunshineglowco
Balloons: @prettyhouse.designs
Entertainment: @djrich_babalu
Candle Lighting: Slava Holidays
